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tekanji commented on the post, The Invitation Request Thread, on the site Shrub 1 year, 3 months ago
Mark,
I’m happy to send you an invitation, but it won’t enable you to make comments that you can’t already make. I double checked and this blog (such that it is) is open to all commenters, while the Official […] -
tekanji commented on the blog post "Check my what?" On privilege and what we can do about it 1 year, 10 months ago
It’s stated clearly in the Discussion Rules that all comments are moderated. Usually before you comment on a site you should do a brief check to see if there is a posted discussion rules/guidelines and familiarize yourself with the code of conduct of that blog before posting. Blogs with some sort of policy will usually post [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post "Check my what?" On privilege and what we can do about it 1 year, 11 months ago
For a general idea of the roles men play specifically in the radical feminist anti-porn movement, I would suggest reading up on relevant articles written by radical anti-porn feminists and (in cases where such questions would be welcome) asking various radical anti-porn feminists their personal opinions. My opinion isn’t really relevant in this…[Read more]
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tekanji commented on the blog post "Check my what?" On privilege and what we can do about it 2 years ago
You know what, I began typing out a comment trying — yet again — to explain to you that you aren’t arguing with what I’ve wrote here because you aren’t understanding what I’ve wrote. But, really, why should I spend time communicating with someone who is quite clearly not willing to do the same for [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post On slut-shaming, deleting comments, and respectful discourse 2 years, 2 months ago
Thanks for the heads up, but as I said I felt an e-mail would be invasive when it was clear to me (based on the evidence at hand, which turned out to be faulty) that she was not interested in having contact with me. This is especially so when her e-mail is not readily available [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post "Check my what?" On privilege and what we can do about it 2 years, 2 months ago
I have a feeling this comment will be censored.
And for that line alone I almost did choose not to allow this past moderation. Frankly, only trolls call choosing to maintain respectful dialogue by implementing discussion rules and moderation “censorship”. And even if you’re not purposely trolling (which you may not be, given that the rest of [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post On slut-shaming, deleting comments, and respectful discourse 2 years, 2 months ago
I couldn’t find an e-mail address.
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tekanji commented on the blog post On slut-shaming, deleting comments, and respectful discourse 2 years, 2 months ago
Thanks for the heads up, but saying “I don’t mean to be disrespectful” and then saying something completely disrespectful is not allowed on this blog. This is your first, and last, warning. And, frankly, you’re assuming bad faith on my part by assuming that there were no legitimate reasons for me to believe that my comments [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post On slut-shaming, deleting comments, and respectful discourse 2 years, 2 months ago
I didn’t feel that it belonged in the post, but for the purposes of a public record (and being fair) here’s what I said on Twitter after I posted the reply that later got deleted:
And this is the last time I’m ever going to Go Make Me a Sandwhich: http://bit.ly/hcpo8y Feminists defending misogyny makes me [...]
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tekanji wrote a new blog post: On slut-shaming, deleting comments, and respectful discourse 2 years, 2 months ago
ETA 2011/03/06: It turns out that my comments were marked as spam, not deleted; they have now been published. For some reason Blogspot, unlike WordPress (which most of my experience is with), displays your comment as properly posted after you hit the “post comment” button, even when it’s been marked as spam. I’m leaving the post [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post Silent Hill Movie 2 years, 5 months ago
Nefer: Actually, I have played all the way through the second. Just because I didn’t finish the first game is no reason to assume that I hadn’t played through any of the other games, especially because I state quite clearly that I’m a fan of the series. It’s also no reason to assume that I don’t know [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post This is why I hardly read blogs anymore 2 years, 6 months ago
@Shiyiya: And you can’t even talk to her about it; she made it very clear on the Sexist Beatdown thread with her defensive, sarcastic, and downright rude responses to Laurie who pointed out the problem with Sady’s framing of female archetypes (the same issue I had that prompted me to read the post in the [...]
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tekanji commented on the blog post This is why I hardly read blogs anymore 2 years, 6 months ago
@Foreign-eyes: From what she said in the comments, Sady apparently doesn’t have a problem with ableist slurs. Which, you know, is her right, but I find it deeply disturbing that she sees herself as “acknowledging and respecting” those who do. Respecting someone is incompatible with saying, “I know this hurts you but I’m going to [...]
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tekanji wrote a new blog post: This is why I hardly read blogs anymore 2 years, 6 months ago
In the past year the amount of (feminist) blogs that I read regularly, or even on an occasional basis, has shrunk to fit on one hand. Literally, aside from keeping up with Iris, the only blogs I regularly read are Hoyden About Town , The Border House , Geek Feminism , Sociological Images , and Shakesville. That’s it. There are a few more that I’ll [...]
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tekanji and llencelyn are now friends 2 years, 6 months ago
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tekanji and Radish Anarcane are now friends 2 years, 7 months ago
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tekanji wrote a new blog post: New post at Better by Design 2 years, 8 months ago
Just posting here to let everyone know that I’ve written a post about sexism in Stardock’s new game Elemental: War of Magic over at Better by Design : Stardock’s Elemental and what it says about the state of games Here’s an excerpt:
The Unit Design chooses facial features (eyes, face shape, skin color, etc) randomly, but allows you to customize [...]
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tekanji wrote a new blog post: Moved to WPMU 2 years, 9 months ago
Some of you might notice that the blog has a new look; this is because I’ve moved over to WPMU and am using the new default WordPress theme. Still busy with school, still no time to blog, though. Sorry! PS. For the first time in the blog’s history I’ve enabled user registration, so if you’re [...]
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tekanji wrote a new blog post: Brian Ashcraft, let me do your homework for you 3 years, 1 month ago
In Kotaku’s grand tradition of shoddy reporting and lack of any decent research, Brian Ashcraft has written an impassioned but so supremely hypocritical article on the RapeLay controversy ( link roundup ) that I felt compelled to briefly bring this blog temporary out of retirement in order to take it down. Since this topic is triggering, the rest…[Read more]
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tekanji wrote a new blog post: Ableism is not feminism. Spread the word. 3 years, 7 months ago
I know this blog is in retirement (my internet time these days is practically nill), but when I saw Meloukhia’s An Open Letter to Feministing (hat-tip: Hoyden About Town) I had to cosign it.
Yes, it’s that important.
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